10 myths about feederism you can stop believing
From 'feeders force feedees to eat' to 'that's just sick', the most common prejudices about feederism, honestly cleared up.
There are so many half-truths about feederism that a lot of people feel ashamed before they've even understood what they're feeling. Let's clear the air.
Myth 1: "Feeders force feedees to eat"
Wrong. Feederism without consent isn't feederism, it's abuse. Real feeders are the first ones who want to hear "stop".
Myth 2: "It's just an eating disorder"
No. An eating disorder is a loss of control that causes suffering. Feederism is a conscious, consensual preference. The two can exist side by side, but one is not the other.
Myth 3: "Every feedee wants to reach 400 pounds"
Some do. Many don't. There are feedees who love being a little softer and stay there, and others who just enjoy the feeling of being full, with no gaining at all.
Myth 4: "Male feedees don't exist"
They do, plenty of them. The scene is a broad mix: all genders, all roles.
Myth 5: "Feeders only find bigger people attractive"
Many feeders love change: the process, the journey, the daring. Others are drawn to curves of every size from the start.
Myth 6: "It's dangerous"
It can be if you overdo it, like anything. Responsible feeders and feedees pay attention to health, breaks and check-ups.
Myth 7: "Everything online is fake"
On Crave the profiles are real, because it's moderated. Yes, elsewhere there are fakes, like everywhere on the internet.
Myth 8: "Feederism is new, a TikTok trend"
The community has existed for decades. TikTok only made it more visible.
Myth 9: "You can't have a relationship around this"
Thousands live feeder/feedee relationships, some for 10+ years. Love doesn't require vanilla tastes.
Myth 10: "Anyone into this is sick"
Someone who loves, eats and enjoys consensually is an adult, not sick. Full stop.
Last thing
If you've gotten tangled up in any of these myths: let go. You are not wrong.