Which feeder platform fits you? An honest comparison
Feabie, Grommr, Curvage, or Crave? I've tried them all. Here's my honest take on the best feeder platforms and which one is right for you.
I get this question constantly: "Which platform should I start on?" Spoiler: it depends on what you want. Here's my honest take after years of trying them all.
Feabie
Huge user base, lots of activity, but the algorithm loves showing you the same five profiles over and over. If you have patience, you'll find someone here. It's the biggest pure-numbers option.
Grommr
Very specific, very gay-gainer focused. If you belong there, great. If not, probably not for you.
Curvage
This isn't really dating, it's a forum with an image collection. Great content, but if you want to actually meet someone, you're in the wrong place.
Crave
Yes, I'm biased, I help build it. But that's also the reason I got involved at all: because I missed a platform that doesn't look like it's from 2008. Profiles with real people, challenges, mukbang search, proper moderation. Smaller, but the odds that someone actually replies are much higher.
My tip
Be on two at once. Crave for honest contacts and a moderated community, Feabie as an extra pool when you're searching for sheer numbers. I'd only add the others if their focus matches yours.
If you want to understand what sets a specialized platform apart, read Crave as a Feabie alternative. And if you're ready: try Crave, a profile is free, premium is optional.
More reading: How to find a feederism community online and Feeder dating: where to find real people.